I always thought life is already divided into 5 part with the age, this five part is vital points of the life and that is inevitable, they are like FRIENDSHIP, LOVE, RESPONSIBILITIES, MONEY, SELF-RESPECT but the one relevant part of life is co-related with all the other’s and that is the FEAR. Fear is the severe thing and we must contemplate about it.
Whatever is important in life is only because of the fear,
The mundane things in the above all the part of life is “THE FEAR OF LOOSING THE THINGS”. This is the crux of the all difficulties, conflicts and the all problems,
Let’s take a look how fear can arise in your life till the end.
In the period of FRIENDSHIP
It is one of the pour relation on earth which give you full of authority and lots of freedom to choose a person as friend as per you needs,
Such a points, which is gives you terrible fright in friendship,
· Fear, when someone misunderstood our words.
· Fear, if we didn’t received appropriate response from our friends.
· Fear, if you failed to give 100 % in any crucial situation of any friend
· Fear, when you come to know that you are being used by your friends for their selfishness.
· Fear, when attrition takes a place in friendship.
Don’t indulge the fear to be cause of broken friendship. It can be biggest fatal blunder of your life.’’ No friendship no life, know friendship know life”
In the period of LOVE
When we born, people get excited to make love, because they conceive we are the angel send from heaven to spread a love and then actual story began they started to take care in vary forms, and we lure by the way they tended to coddle us because that time we were unable to feel what is really going on, when our conscience starts working and when we commence to know the world we actually realized its goes around with the Fear by knowing the world.
Such as points, which is a cause when we afraid in love:
- Fear of loosing love is can be reason of the broken heart because of being too much of possessive we are unable to give require freedom and space in relation.
- Fear of loosing oneself pride in love, it creates the egoistic nature.
- Fear of Not being valued by other partner, it is the sheer reason of being too much of reserved. That’s why we stop expressing our love.
- Fear of loosing the individuality in love, we start to differentiate the things with each other, result can be the friction.
- At the end the fear of loosing the relationships, we proceed to bother and to take granted for each other and then we start endures the relationship in spite of carrying it on love.
There is no need to afraid in love, because love is a healer and it cures your fear. “Give required freedom and space in love therefore relation can stems properly.”
In the period of taking RESPONSIBILITIES
This is the life's most important thing, which is entails throughout the life and that is imperative. Because of the onus we are able to show our determination by taking decision as per the situation needs.
It shows our capacity to abide the result of our decision which can be anything.
Responsibility is equal to action.
Such a points, where result will be negative, when we scared from taking responsibilities,
· Sometimes we stop taking actions because the fear of result.
· Because of Fear most of the time we start to running away from our sheer responsibilities and the result is become a diffident.
· Sometimes we became a lethargic because the fear of too much of responsibilities.
· Fear of delegating the responsibilities can be the cause of the not trusting on others. Which can feeble your relations.
· Fear of condemnation by others. We cease being enthusiastic towards the work.
Responsibility evolved us with the time; it makes us strong and experienced to be well destined for next time,” start taking the responsibilities because it’s easy to dodge our responsibilities, but we cannot dodge the consequences of dodging our responsibilities “
In the period of earning of the MONEY
The fact of the money is whole life we struggle to earn the abundance amount of money to spend on the certain things but we failed to spend the money because that time we realized our life is already end. Remember money only can buy things which can content you for the sometime.
Such a points, where money can make you afraid.
- Life's biggest anxious moment is the fear of loosing the money. Because of common tendency of all is MONEY IS EVERYTHING.
- Fear of being cheated by others in the transaction of money it is the reason why we start to perceiving in suspicious way.
- If you are earning More money it means you are earning more risk,
It can be cause of the fear to handle the risk.
- Fear of earning money because most of the us thinks '' NO MONEY NO LIFE ''
- The last but not the least MONEY IS A BIGGEST FEAR ITSELF.
“Money ought to be used while people used to be love but nowadays people are being used by loving the money.”
In the period of when we realized our SELF-RESPECT
No one want to loose his virtue, and that is the Reputation which represents our personality in front of the world, it creates our character , it makes the differences with others, it makes you to stand by alone from the crowd.
Its good to be the man of valued rather than the man of success.
- Self respect is a great anxiety, Every time we are thinking about to manage our reputation in right way because of fear.
- Fear of being defaming by others.
- Whole life we resist to maintain our good image.
- Fear of backbiting.
- Fear, when someone point out on dignity with bad manners.
We must revere our self, because everyone is unique with his dignity with his potential, it is a fruit of discipline. “You can cheat others but you can’t cheat yourself because of your self respect”
That is the my conception about fear,
It is the little death which kills mind unknowingly, Fear is resemble to the all the negative points in the world, so jus chuck the fear from within and enjoy the life without being afraid from anything “because there will be nothing to loose (fear) in the life by loosing the fear.”
Fear makes the situation bigger then itself. So embrace the fear and take the action
“Live life without fear because we born without fear but whole life we die with fear. Just face it if you want to live authentic life.”
Thank you,
G2.
